Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
On the way to the bank (to pick up a report for the police about my stolen purse) my mom called. She knows how bad it is that my purse got stolen but the wording she used was so odd and applicable to what is going on with Him and I. She was saying how she would support me through anything no matter what, etc. It was very out of the ordinary, almost like she knows what's going on. I only told my cousin Sunday night about it, and he surely hasn't said anything.
After talking to my Dr. today about telling my family what's going on (about the secret potentially-ending marriage), she suggested that I do what is best for me, what is going to help me deal with this. I've never been totally open with my family on everything so opening up with this is kind of a big deal. I'm still torn on what I should do. I really want to go home this weekend and just let it all out, to my mom and grandma, maybe at the same time. But, He will probably be completely against that. I honestly have no idea what to do.
Thoughts, ideas, comments, suggestions??
After talking to my Dr. today about telling my family what's going on (about the secret potentially-ending marriage), she suggested that I do what is best for me, what is going to help me deal with this. I've never been totally open with my family on everything so opening up with this is kind of a big deal. I'm still torn on what I should do. I really want to go home this weekend and just let it all out, to my mom and grandma, maybe at the same time. But, He will probably be completely against that. I honestly have no idea what to do.
Thoughts, ideas, comments, suggestions??
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If you really want to go home this weekend, the go home this weekend. God has blessed you with family. And your mother likely does know something is up. You may not have told her, but don't for one minute believe that she doesn't know.
This is a time for you to be selfish. Consider your own needs and feelings and work to protect and support them. You will have ample opportunity to repay the favor in the future.
My suggestion - go home this weekend and let it all out. And when the weekend is over, take a moment to thank God that you had that opportunity.
Good luck.
Harley.