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I just read a post and I wonder if this will help any of us out there. I for one am afraid that when I throw myself out there again I won't know how to screen for a healthy relationship. SO lets think in retrospect and nail down the red flags. Perhaps it will give us confidence.
1. When we were dating he broke up with me because he thought he might be missing out on greener grasses. Did it again when we were married. Learning that porn addiction causes this.
2. Never spoke about his needs. Just got sulky and cheated.
3.When we fought he would give me the silent treatment for days.
4. Spoke fondly of his mother but never really showed he respected her or cared to keep in touch with her. (I did that)
1. When we were dating he broke up with me because he thought he might be missing out on greener grasses. Did it again when we were married. Learning that porn addiction causes this.
2. Never spoke about his needs. Just got sulky and cheated.
3.When we fought he would give me the silent treatment for days.
4. Spoke fondly of his mother but never really showed he respected her or cared to keep in touch with her. (I did that)
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
never worried about any of the bills i paid them all.
never apologized for ruining a lot of my things with cigarette burns.
didn't care that he broke my heart. and he did it over the phone.
2. He was never satisfied. Truly the grass was always greener in every way possible.
3. He started working out and paying a whole lot of attention to his appearance but no attention to me.
4. He wouldn't talk to me. He got mad when we tried to talk and I would cry.
5. He started to pick, pick, pick at me constantly.
1...constantly needed to visit a girl friend...."prince charming" was on the way
2. "prince charming" is her best friend....i she refused to ever let me go on her visit....he lives 1 1/2 away.
3 goldilocks visits always lasted 2 days
4. the kids knew and where afraid to tell me of her vacation visits.
5. the most telling sign?....she could not look me in the eye and tell me she loved me.
i now find it humorous that she felt that sleeping me was somehow cheating on the her prince.
2) When he called his oldest daughter " conniving little bitch"
3) when he called his youngest daughter a "fat slob".
4) when he said his mother was "complaining too much" while going through Chemothearpy for Lung Cancer.
need I go on?
No eye contact=guilty conscience?
Treating me like I did not exist.
You are so much better off.. what a sicko
Hugs
Erica
2. Had to borrow money from a relative for the down payment on our apartment.
3. Lived with a family member until we got married.
4. Never met his mother until two months after we were married.
5. Told off-the wall lies and actually believed them.
Moody behavior
Broke 2 computers with viruses, from porn
and I married him anyway.
I will be honest, I would like a boyfriend, but I doubt I want to get that committed to anyone I date.