I was talking with my son a little bit last night when I got home from softball. I told him how much I loved him and how weird and hard it was going to be on nights when when he and the other kids would not be at the house with me. He told me that if my wife moves out of the school district he wants to stay with me so he doesn't have to leave his friends. He is 13 so even though I leave for work before he gets up on the morning he would be able to get himself up and off to school. I would love having him there with me and it would give us some better bonding time. I don't know what my wife would think though. If we did end up going for divorce after this separation and custody became an issue, would he at 13 almost 14 have a say in where he wanted to live?
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