Many of the topics discuss whether or not you will be whole again, find love again, be intimate/ have sex again, etc after the break-up. I would trade all of those things for the ability as a dad to raise my kids in my home every day. My wife chose to end this marriage and have a BF and, as the woman, gets the kids the majority of the time. I must admit that it upsets me to read about many people wondering about their romantic futures: I would trade places with you in a heartbeat simply knowing that I was going to be able to attend all of my kids' school, social, sporting events...to be able to pick them up when they fall, kiss their boo boos and wipe their tears away, check their HW with them, watch a movie with them, celebrate holidays with them, see their expressions on Christmas morn and stay up late with them on New Year's Eve, and trick-or-treat, see my son's first tooth come out, teach him how to ride a two-wheeler (stbx did it) etc, etc etc,.. Who cares about finding a new BF/GF...WIFE/HUSBAND, DATING..THOSE OF YOU HAVE HAVE YOUR KIDS...BE THANKFUL...MINE WERE RIPPED AWAY FROM ME and my and my kids' lives/activities/relationship/memories will not be created or the same.
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