My X and I still share joint banking accounts. There has been no separation of property yet. The problem I have is that he just spent 600 dollars on fixing his truck, when he knows I just spent 400 on tires for our son's car. he was also aware of the fact that his son's car needs to be serviced to keep it running. That will prob. cost another 600-800. He keeps saying, "No problem. just take it out of savings." The problem I have with that is when we finally do split, there will be nothing left of savings if we keep taking cash out of it. That is really all I have. If we spend it all now, there won't be anything left as a cushion for me and his boys. What should I do? Any suggestions?
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