
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Depends on what pov you want, some say All is on purpose. Ever read that Reason, Season, Lifetime email that's been sent around the world?
http://www.steeldog.com/reasonseasonlifetime.htm
I think it says it best.
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People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
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When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
or to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
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Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
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Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
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When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,
the season eventually ends.
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
~Brian A. "Drew" Chalker~
There's nothing you can know that isn't known.
Nothing you can see that isn't shown.
Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
It's easy.
Sometimes we try to Make something fit into the "Meant to BE" by not releasing it immediatly when we feel it start to burn us.
For whatever reason, we continue to hold on and we miss out on the Big Dream that we really Wanted.
Who Knows...maybe the new people in Their Lives WERE the Meant to Be's!!! Maybe WE made the mistakes by not releasing in the beginning-I know that I sure did.
See, too much thought.
and yes...i do believe that two people can be meant to be together. at the same time...any relationship takes work and effort on both parts. but, w/someone special...it should come very easily.
I don't know about meant to be, but I do believe in fate. I totally agree With Larry's reason, season, lifetime. Enjoy the time you have with every person who means something to you...you never know when they will be gone!