My BF and I have been fighting A LOT lately. We've both said that we want to work at the relationship. However, we don't spend any time together, we haven't seen each other in a month. We rarely talk on the phone, and when we do we end up in a fight. We e mail each other a few times week or a few text messages here and there. My problem is that I want to spend time with him to try to get the relationship back on track, he says he can't give me what I need right now (spend time with me) because all it ever ends up in is a fight. It has turned into a vicious cycle. we don't talk, we don't see each other, so I get upset and it stats a fight, then because we've started to fight again he doesn't call, or make plans to spend time with me. I've asked for some sort of a compromise, but so far there seems to be none. I'm so confused because I do want to work at the relationship, but my needs are ot being met AT ALL. He goes snowboarding with his friends, out to dinner with them, meanwhile I sit home doing nothing. I feel so stupid! Anyone out there with any advice? I'm SO CONFUSED.
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