I have had a rough past few years but the one that took the cake just happened on Oct 30. I had been married for the past 2.5 years in a rough marriage to a woman with a mental illness. Long story short, she moved out multiple times to my relief, but I always allowed her to move back home. Her illness, that only got worse once diagnosed, caused her to be destructive toward me. She tried her best to take me down, tried to get me fired. She told me one time that she wont stop until I lose my house, my job and am in jail and she has all my money! OMG, yeah, and I STILL took her back. My problem is I am a rescuer and I couldn't stop thinking about my "in sickness and health" vow and I truly wanted to help her. The final straw was she looked up my adopted son's birth parents and told them what his name is now and where he lives! I lost it, called the attorney and never looked back. She begged and promised to be good, etc. and I wavered of course. It sucks being alone and when she was good, she was great! In the meantime, I got involved with a married woman who wanted to be divorced. I had known her for a few years and we hit it off wonderfully. She ended up being my everything. She was particular and never complained about anything. We fell head over heals in love. My marriage ended with flying colors and my new relationship was flourishing. Then it came the day for her divorce, Oct 30. She had a last minute feeling of doing the wrong thing and felt that she hadn't given the marriage her best effort, etc. She has two kids by this guy, but her words were that he was a childish, alcoholic, unromantic dumb buy and she regrets ever having his kids. I figured out the day before that she was wavering. It floored me. I had all of her notes promising love forever, taking care of my already damaged heart, etc. I was devastated but thought maybe, just MAYBE she would go through with it. Even when she left for the hearing, she said she didnt know. I called her afterward and she said she would be home to get her stuff. Just like that. I am still reeling in shock. I thought we would be together forever and that I'd marry her someday. She was my everything. I asked if she would at least call me if her last effort failed and she said she would. THAT is my only shred of hope that I have left. I can hardly function. This is really the only time in my life that someone has left me and it hurts so bad.
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