
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

julik
Since stbx officially announced that he was leaving the marriage, leaving the house 3 weeks ago, (he's supposed to move out this Saturday), it is just like there is some other person in the house that I don't have a clue as to who he is. It's as though we don't have any history between us even. He looks different, his tone of voice is different, he projects himself differently, there are no words exchanged between us, and we avoid each other (or at least I avoid him) as much as possible - pretty much I stay up in my bedroom, watch tv there, eat meals out of the house (this is my house that he moved into). But the personality of this man now - it is really like there is some stranger in the house who I don't have a clue of who he is. We don't argue or anything, because we don't talk to each other. I'm not so sure that I could talk to him because I'd either start to cry or get mad. We don't have any children, so its not like we have to exchange any information. I think having a room-mate would be more comfortable than what is going on now. It is so bizzare, has anyone else experienced this? Too bad, so sad :(
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...so I totally understand everything your saying....
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