I'm SO SO close to texting the ex, so close. I just want to say to him that my family and I were to good to him. We did so much for him and this is the shit he has dealt to us. Because he had to get a big shot lawyer and couldn't be fair in the first place, now I'm dealing with all these legal fees and on top of that bills that need to be paid. The ex won't agree to release some of the funds in trust in order for me to have peace of mind to pay off some debt. What an ass. Got off the phone today with my lawyer and the equalization payment is a joke compared to how it could of been resolved without huge legal fees. He is a joke. But it truly is a stab in my heart how well he was treated by my family and how much they loved him. I just can't forgive him for that. Well I told my lawyer today to put in an offer to settle, and if the ex does not agree he'll be sorry. He has been completely selfish and unfair. I want this damn thing over with NOW. I can't stand it anymore. Ugggg, I'm afraid I'm going to text him and he's the type that will just use it against me. STOP ME! I know I shouldn't do it.
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