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I chatted with one of my DS friends about this yesterday and got a good objective point of view but here is something i would be curious to hear others perspective. I always took on all the bills, even took on a large amount of credit card debt for her.
So heres the deal she picks up the girls from the babysitter 9/10 times they are there. So she emails me and asks how much we owe her. I simply said i dont know why dont you ask her you see her everyday. That made her go off on me saying im a jerk, etc. What is your guys take on these actions?
So heres the deal she picks up the girls from the babysitter 9/10 times they are there. So she emails me and asks how much we owe her. I simply said i dont know why dont you ask her you see her everyday. That made her go off on me saying im a jerk, etc. What is your guys take on these actions?
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I know exactly how you feel. She should have asked the babysitter. I find that I need to inform stbx about our kids and their activities and it sucks because I feel like he depends on me to get him the messages. I told him he needs to call and find out the information for him. Although he is soooooo appreciative when I let him know what's going on (sarcasm intended).
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My x wanted me to continue to work for him, and keep his company books... NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!
I stopped doing things like that for him when we separated, but he still keeps asking...
WHAT PART OF "NO" DOESN"T HE UNDERSTAND????
Or, my son, two years football, 5-6:30, five days per week. "where's the field? When does he get out?" err. pettiness of a codependent sociopath.
This happened alot when I separated form my first wife too, people always want to take sides for some reason or other. I've lost many of friends because of this in my time.
I wouldn't take it personally, because I don't think its anything against you in particular, and even if it is, so what, ya know? I just think she's taking sides, and since women tend to form sisterly-like relationships with eachother, much easier then men form brotherly relationships, thats what it sounds like to me.