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Stop me

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I called my H, he didn't pick up, left no message. I soo badly want to call him and ask him if he wants to see a movie this weekend. Somebody chop off my fingers right about now.

I will need to let my phone run out of battery this weekend. I don't have much strength right now
to not call :(
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NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!
Is that good enough!
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read my post Alex. you are not alone. Just think it all the way through of what the reality is. and talk about it like you are.
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call a girl friend instead!!! go with her to the movies!!
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don't do it Alex....
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Don't ruin your weekend with that call, please. Go with a true friend.

Help?
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Do not call him. Let sleeping dogs lie. Go out with some friends and have a great weekend!
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FREEZE!
back away from the phone.........
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Uuummmm...Where are you Alex?

You don't have that phone do you?
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Don't call. It'll only hurt your heart.
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Just think how you'll feel when he says "No."
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I wish y'all would have stopped me about 10 minutes ago! Damn the phone.
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DON'T DO IT! I did the exact same thing last year b/c there was a movie I knew stbx would want to see. He said very nonchalantly, I don't think that would be a good idea.

Broke my heart, but I didn't let him know that.
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Shoot the phone....go with a friend.....I am ready to throw mine to the snow bank right outside of my house!
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I am awaiting a call right now from my stbx to find out what time to pick up my daughter tomorrow. Will she remember me? or will she not? Ugh.
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what the heck posessed you to do that, put out your hand. find the strength alex, do not let yourself be rejected time after time. go the movie by yourself. ive done that, it's really not so bad.
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