Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my stbx and i havent actually sat down and had the heart to heart with the boys. my attorney asked that i wait because they ' ll have questions and we wont have the answers . not yet.so wwe havent . at least i know i havent said anything. i wonder about him though. he has planned and talked to me about this weekend. he wants to go over to his moms for a sleep over with the boys. he has NEVER done any sleepovers with any one b4 with the boys. i just am wondering . will they fill the kids heads or is it safe? i dont trust stbx and have ben given NO reason why i should at this point . i feel a little uncomfortable about this. the other thing is, i was advised by my friends at my weightloss group that the boys have an good idea of what is going on and thay advised saying to the boys something like. im sure you ve noticed daddy adn i havent been getting along . how do you feel about it? just to get some sort of feedback on how their feeling about the goings on here. andthty said if i cry or they cry , its ok cause we're all human. stbx told me to control my emotions in front of them. i believe that is teaching them to stuff their emotions. just like HIM. what do you all think ? Should i do it? I want my boys to be ok of course and it is weighting heavy on my mind that we havent talked to them yet about it. or i could wait til after mediation which should be in a couple weeks or so.
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HELP!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
My older two kids think I have no feelings because I was so good at hiding them, I don't do that now. He obviously has controlled a lot you do, don't let him continue.