Well I hate to admit it but I am still taping my stbx cell phone conversations. I hate the fact I am foing it. I gives me so much anxiety as I listen to her either bash me or speak to the om. To learn the friends of hers that know what she is doing and to find out that her mom, that lives with me for free, is in on it. Its absolutely crushing. I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I need the info to use against her for my divorce but it bothers me how I am getting it and also its really bothering me to listen too. I am thinking to ust stop doing it and just filing for D. The one problem I am the money maker. I would get hammered without any leverage. Anybody have any advice. Do I still keep getting the info even though emotionally its killing me or do I just throw the towel in and file this week. Most other advice I got is to keep collecting. Get pictures. Get as much dirt as possible. Even if not admisable in a court room it could still be damaging. The stbx might be more willing to deal. I am a good person. I am not the cheater. I have always taken care of my family. Especially my stbx.
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