I'm having so much trouble getting my STBX to accept this divorce. He acts almost like we are still married/together. Life hasn't changed in his mind. He wants to vacation and hang out together and doesn't understand why I don't want to. It's been 8 months since we split because he attacked me with a knife and cut me. The divorce should be final in weeks. He is driving me insane. What is he going to do when I start dating. I almost expect him to be hiding in the bushes outside. Has anyone else here delt with this kind of STBX? What should I do? How can I cut him lose without causing him to hurt himself or me???
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