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STBX WHAT?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok I am really putting myself out there...but here goes. I did not know what the heck STBX meant...as evident from anything that I have posted so far.LOL Now I do think this is quite funny even though some of you may think THAT i AM QUITE THE IDIOT. My daughters who are in there 20's would especially get a kick out of it... after they finished making fun of me for even being on this site. I am a fairly intelligent women and even text frequently...but just haven't gotten the verbage down. So did you guys just figure it out or is there info. somewhere that I am just not finding. I really want you to think that I am moving slow not that I AM SLOW. LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
i had to ask and still dont know much more that soon to be ex at this point.
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
STBX is Soon To Be eX

It's better than calling them the SOB :)
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deleted_user
I was actually reading someones journal and it just clicked.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Funny, Larry...

Never be afraid to ask a question, only ignorant people nod and pretend to know things.

This is a wonderful place where people don't laugh at you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm learning as I go. Took me a couple days to figure out the stbx one. Seems like a given now but I just didn't get it at first. I can tell you now that 96 means the topic is for adults and may contain some x-rated material. I can also tell you that someone replying to a topic with the work "Bump" is just moving the topic back to the top of the topic list.
deleted_user
deleted_user
not slow to me - I can't text, lol - and as far as downloading from my camera to the computer - my daughter lovingly tells me I'm challenged hundreds of times per day! oh....to be young again
Dun4now
Dun4now
I had to figure it out myself I did not want anyone to think I was dumb, I also figured out the lmao but did not understand the rof or rotf before it , after a week of seeing it I had to ask and got the answer. there is stilla few but I try to figure them out for a while before opening mouth and inserting foot, or feet.
Che2
Che2
Divorce code :)

took me a while too.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I didn't know what it was at first. I looked at the context and eventually figured out the abbreviations ;0
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's alright, I'm military and used to abreviations. I had problems with many of them and really stuck my foot in my mouth when I asked all the folks who BOB was. 15 shades of red that day!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm going to stick my foot in my mouth now. Who or what is "BOB"
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't feel bad...I still don't understand Bump and I have been a member since june... :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh and TifS it's Battery Operated Boyfriend...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Glad I didn't ask tifs, ha! ha!
That maybe the only one that I don't really care to use:) I grew up Catholic...would have to be very tipsy to put that in writing.LOL
deleted_user
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Myself I would rather refer to my stbx as the adulterous cold hearted bitch that she is. Just venting here
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