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stbx so rude

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why is that when you try to nice to them and they are so rude and do not even say thank you for something that you tried to help them with.
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Because they are the lesser species.. they are currently possessed and that is why they are our STBX's>.....
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I beg your pardon; lesser species?
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thanks angelcherub, that made me laugh I needed that.
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Yes our STBX's ( notice I did not indicate a gender) are the lesser species ( meaning less intelligence). Sorry it is a term I use......

No offence but it definately describes my STBX!
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None taken. I have had a bad day with issues related to my stbx. Just wish she would meet her new boy toy somewhere else besides having him over in my home and in my bed!
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Put itching powder on the bed and in between the sheets.. that should do the trick
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That could be why they are our STBX's :)
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A friend on this site gave me this answer to a question like that when I asked it....

I don't know if all guys are like this, but speaking for myself, telling myself that I'm "at war" with someone and maintaining a hostile relationship gives me complete and total emotional detachment. I feel nothing for that person. I'm guessing that's what he wants. If he's sweet and kind to you, it's probably going to bring out feelings with which he can't or doesn't want to cope.
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Lezack that is exactly how I am responding to my stbx. When she calls I used to say hello now I just say "what," or something to that effect. I never return phone calls and wait for her to call me back. Yes I feel I have become detached, I don't want to talk to her and I really don't want to see her as she is now ugly to me and I don't know what I ever saw in her. So am I rude hell yes, she wanted this she left if she expects for me to treat her like a human she needs to start acting like one. Instead of the uncaring selfish nasty beatch she has become. Do you really think I have detached?
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Because most times they are not thinking you are trying to be nice. Mine thinks I am a sneaky, money-grubbing person...
PS - I'm not!!!
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