on friday stbx and i had a discussion after boys were asleep. he says i have been giving him "digs" and i said im not, really. ive been avoiding him like the plague actually. he says yeah in front of the boys. so i just told him stuff he's been doing to me as well. so the long and short of it is that he says he's accepted the situation and that he's grown from it already (or growing) and he's gonna be someone now , who he wants to be and not someone somebody else made him to be. HUH!! Lets play the blame game, why dont we? i took it as he 's saying i made him into someone he's not. now he has the freedom to be who he wants. WHATEVER! he 's the controlling one anyway. he then said to me, to let him know when ive accepted it too. what do y'all think about the conversation? Do you think it only takes that short of a time and he's accepted it already? i havent! he is probably right. cause I happened to love him for a long time. i have doubts that he ever loved me though, have for quite dsome time. and now those doubts are just stronger than ever. especailly cause he badmouthed me to the family realations guy on court day.