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Here's the deal:
My stbx is out of town with my youngest son. They are in Florida on a business trip. Son texted me that stbx's best friend had open heart surgery last night. I honestly don't care for this man as he has been the impetus for a bit of the heartache in my relationship although he has never done anything to me directly. In light of the fact that stbx and son are out of town and won't be back until the weekend, do I call his wife, send a card, go visit or just ignore it and pretend I don't know about it?
My stbx is out of town with my youngest son. They are in Florida on a business trip. Son texted me that stbx's best friend had open heart surgery last night. I honestly don't care for this man as he has been the impetus for a bit of the heartache in my relationship although he has never done anything to me directly. In light of the fact that stbx and son are out of town and won't be back until the weekend, do I call his wife, send a card, go visit or just ignore it and pretend I don't know about it?
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I would ignore it. It's her friends family...not yours.
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yeah, let it alone. I mean, if you were friends with the woman send a card. if acquaintances, let it alone
deleted_user
Ignore everyone who undermined your marriage.
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you don't do anything, it's not your responsibility to send a card or visit, it's your stbx responsibility. don't pretend you don't know. you have no obligations in this situation.
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