I may catch hades for this but i just have to have some opinions.Told her i wanted divorce and would be moving out today and filing tomorrow.Already have the money set aside! Problem is..she is back in the hospital.Twice in the last 3 days.Docs said it was anxiety...now it's pulmonary inflammation.Everything was hunky dory until i told her i was leaving..made arrangements for a place to go and set a filing date.Now..she "passed" out at the mils and is in the hospital for observation.I know it sounds bad but i can't help but feel like she is at the very least using this to hold me at bay and buy herself some more time.I'm a monster if i leave her now...and miserable and giving in to her if i don't.I feel like i am in a lose /lose situation.Her dad has indicated that i should stay for now.."until she gets through it" and slowly take steps to dissolve the marriage.Financially better,emotionally prudent for the kids.I'm for the band-aid approach.Quick.Less painful i think than dragging it out.They also have (mils)a family lawyer and my fear is that they are buying time too to set me up.They know the importance of filing first.etc This has me worried.Sorry for long post..just need some unbiased opinions.Thank you!Ps.This of course is just the latest thing and their are alot of other details but this is just the basics.
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