I have been divorced for 6 months now. I have been in constant contact with him. I sometimes spend evenings with him out. I have been also trying to break the ties with him, I know that he has another woman. She is pregnant and i believe that he is playing both sides. He is lying to me constantly and I don't know why. He will see the kids on visitation and not play with them. Instead he talks to me about his life and problems. He makes plans with me and sometimes actually keeps them. I do get stood up alot. I am told that he loves me and he wants to be a family again. But he uses her as an excuse that it's not going to work. I am confused on what to do. I can't get out of this endless cycle and i want too. He hasn't paid child support in 8 months and I think that he is doing this to keep from paying. I also believe he is living with her and seeing me on the side.
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