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stbx is writing again

deleted_user
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last time i saw him writing was months ago. he wrote all kinds of stuff about him being afraid of me which is bull cause if im so awful, and he is so afraid , why dont he leave.? and he also wrote stuff bad mouthing my family and my friends. and now he's up to something again. oh well ! Let him write what the f he wants about who and what he wants. i just want to have this be over soon. im not bad mouthing anyone. i want to be healthy and happy and have my boys live with me and have rightful time with their ded. and i , of course want them to be happy too.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sounds like you are moving on. Way to go! Guess he needs to get more off his chest, hopefully he'll stop in time.
I am happy for you to being able to move on. You are my hero this morning!
deleted_user
deleted_user
.

I only ever wrote one letter to my ex-wife.

To thank her for having the guts and foresight to make a decision that hurt her but was advantageous for everyone in the long-term.

I found composing the feelings in a letter were important, as I could never say the same verbally.

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deleted_user
deleted_user
your so right in your goal to be healthy and happy with the boys. and for them to have a relationship with their dad. don't worry about what he is doing or why. you have to stay focused on yourself and the boys.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you.

Don't let him suck you back into the darkness.

Stay strong and focus on yourself and your children.
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