I have to preface this by saying that my stbx is a pathalogical liar and very manipulative. The last few days he calls me and cries on the phone, "I miss you", "I'm not doing well", etc. Usually he uses the guise of seeing the kids to see me--but I don't buy that anymore. He hasn't asked to see the kids this week but asks to see me (NOPE!). Today he's called me 3 times crying and says that he hasn't gotten out of bed all day. I've told him (repeatedly for the past 6 months) to seek counseling or at least go to AA (raging alcoholic), but he won't. I think he might be trying to manipulate me, but if I'm wrong, I don't want anything bad to happen to him. Should I just leave it up to him to seek help?
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