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O.K. So last year i agreed to let her have the boys Christmas Eve and Day with the provision that this year they come home to my house on those days,fair enough don't you think?
So I just get a email from her telling me she wants the kids this years because she missed out last year!! WTF??
Second issue,last year I asked the boys what they wanted for Christmas,they said a XbOX 360,no problem three days later they tell me mom bought them one for Christmas!
So this year I ask even earlier what they wanted and they said a Nintendi Wii and we would keep it here while the X Box stayed at moms house.
Well in the same email I just received she tells me she bought the boys a Wii and what was I going to get them???? WTF??
I can't win it seems,she only gets xmas day and new years day off besides weekends so should I let her have the kids again for Christmas?
I am so tired of dealing with her mind games,I wish she would dry up and blow away
So I just get a email from her telling me she wants the kids this years because she missed out last year!! WTF??
Second issue,last year I asked the boys what they wanted for Christmas,they said a XbOX 360,no problem three days later they tell me mom bought them one for Christmas!
So this year I ask even earlier what they wanted and they said a Nintendi Wii and we would keep it here while the X Box stayed at moms house.
Well in the same email I just received she tells me she bought the boys a Wii and what was I going to get them???? WTF??
I can't win it seems,she only gets xmas day and new years day off besides weekends so should I let her have the kids again for Christmas?
I am so tired of dealing with her mind games,I wish she would dry up and blow away
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
sorry sorry couldn't help it.
No seriously the consoles don't matter its the games so its actually cool they can play there games at both homes. Just like most other toys they can just take them from one house to the other. Now if she decides to but the games you've already bought that would be so obvious.
You could get them one for your house,,, and a special tv to play it on, so that they are not always tying up the family tv! Just an idea,, already been this route! LOL
As far as visitation, do you nothave that kinda set in stone yet? I mean standard is trading off,, who had them for Thanksgiving?
And BTW, the holidays do seem to be the hardest, and she is playing games with you Good luck!