Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How do you handle this one? I'm trying to discuss finances and all the details that need taking care of and he's begging me to come back. I can't get anything accomplished. I don't want his desperation to turn into anger. I want the divorce to remain "amicable" but I don't want him to keep thinking I'm coming back. It makes things worse for me emotionally because I know I've made the right decision and it's painful to hear someone tell you all the things you longed to hear for months, years... and of course he doesn't mean it but it's still hard.
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this must be very difficult for you. although you are being ver strong. start singing i have made the right decision in your head everytime he start working on you to get back together. sounds silly, but it might work. do you love him? do you want to be with him? can you have a life together?
Loved1
You want an amicable divorce, you may have to be willing to do this yourself and leave his feelings out of it. I can relate to being drawn back in by the stuff yes I've been waiting for too, the apologies and being accountable for stuff. Closure on your part does not need to include closure on his part if you stay plugged into the right support. He may know exactly what he is doing, I suspect.
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