It has been one year since my stbx told me he wanted a divorce via telephone. This is the guy who told me and our 3 children we were moving to CA last year with him and then called me to tell me he wanted a divorce after he had been out there one month. We live in FL. He has visited the kids for less than 1% of the past year. He was actually here for a full week to watch the kids for spring break- He has never stayed to visit with them more than 4/5 days- he always cuts the time short to go visit OW in Atlanta. So, I have to say I was suspicious he was coming for a full week, I mean how can he live without OW? Of course, I should have known, He had the nerve to bring her here and introduce her to the kids. They are confused to say the least. I am soooooo irritated with him, what the hell is he thinking? Does anyone else think it is wrong to introduce OW to kids before the divorce? My mind has just been racing, I can't sleep I am so mad. Am I alone on this?
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