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deleted_user 04/14/2007

I hate to talk about this and I am embarrassed even though I know I shouldn't be. Here's the situation. Married almost 1.5 yrs. and we have been doing the divorce dance for several months. He tells me that he has participated in homosexual behaviors before we were married and was unsure for approx. 3 yrs. if he was a homosexual.
I have no doubt that he should have told me before we were married. I guess what I want to know if anyone has the answer to my ? of "can I file for an annulment" for this reason of concealment?
I've got to tell you this information has floored me.

deleted_user 04/14/2007

I can tell you what I know about annulments in general.

Annulments are rare and are only granted in situations where there was some LEGAL DEFECT at the time of marriage that makes it invalid. Even if the marriage was not valid from the beginning, the court still has the power to divide the property, enter a parenting plan for children, and make financial orders.

Not sure if that helps or just makes it more confusing...

deleted_user 04/14/2007

I appreciate any information or encouragement. Fortunately, we have no children, or marital assets or debts.

deleted_user 04/15/2007

I would suggest that you talk to a divorce lawyer in your area. Laws vary by state. I am not familiar with your state laws.

Ultimately it will be up to a Judge if you can have an annulment vs. a divorce. Also, you may want to do some research. Try the internet, library, legal aide office in your area. At the very least it would give you a starting point, and a better idea of what your rights are.

Stay strong, and best of luck to you~

deleted_user 04/17/2007

First off, you are aware that an annulment has nothing to do with the court system.....It;s thru the church. That is where you need to seek out the information your looking for......I'm not sure if this will qualify for an annulment, but it may. I'm not really sure though..... I hope this helps alittle and good luck, hunny!

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