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STBX, grow the f up

deleted_user
deleted_user
OMG, she is stuping to really low levels lately.
Their is just to much to even write here. When is this sh1t going to end? 5 months into it and it feels it will never end. Let's see, i'm a loner that is seeing 2 women, taking care of her monster-in-law, not looking out for the kids while I cook dinner. She takes them for most of the weekend, the only time I don't have to work, and I invite 1 of my imaginary GF to a church party that she was going to anyway.
She is just being such a b-och I want to scream.
Wait till she finds out i'm going for 50/50 custody. I go where the kids go, I am to important for them to be weekend DAD. I'm going to try like hell to keep them in their school where they want to be.

NO MORE MR. NICE GUY
Sorry for my rant
deleted_user
deleted_user
Rant away niceguy - It's monday!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Your kids need you see the post about the interesting statistics
deleted_user
deleted_user
is there a special trick i don't know about, when i was cooking dinner, my kids were in the next room playing. but apparently she does it different. and wow, your one really busy guy. how does she get anything done, she seems to busy being in your business to take care of anything else. rant and rave all you want.
deleted_user
deleted_user
consider the source, nod and smile while she rants, watch her head spin, duck to avoid pea soup, thank God you don't have to be subjected to it everyday anymore and take solice in the fact that whether you were the one to initiate this or not....you can run screaming into the night away from her crazy a** when she is done!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I totally understand ya!
deleted_user
deleted_user
good luck getting 50/50...you must read Taken Into Custody by Baskerville
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes, more Mr. Nice Guy, in fact, Mr. Wonderful Guy. Why? Because that is who you are. BUT! You are also a loving, caring person, and if some people see that as a weakness then they are foolish indeed. You are an assertive person who knows that you want, and you will assert your rights and priveleges to the fullest degree possible, all the while taking the high road and refusing to sink to her level. Joint custody is your goal. Me and *she* have custody like this: *she* has our son Monday and Wednesday nights, and every alternate Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night. This way, because it is fixed, he has some rhythm and stability in his schedule, and I can work late on the nights he is with *her*. I believe that you can seek final say in religion, education, and medical so if you don't have any problems with medical and religion, you can give them to her so that you keep education.
Be the strong and assertive man that you are. That's all.
deleted_user
deleted_user
wat does STBX stand for??
deleted_user
deleted_user
.....STBX
= Soon To Be eX-spouce.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You go Mr. Nice Guy, the leaver doesn't deserve niceness. Good luck with everything.
Seashells1
Seashells1
So I'm wondering. Is it cheaper to date imaginary people? And do you have to put up with their psycho ex-spouses?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank you all for your kind remarks. I feel much better today. This is just a roller coaster ride, ehh.
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