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talked to my older son today stbx showed him pics of his "girlfriend" my son was crying broke his heart then I asked my oldest son to call his brother cause he was upset about the pics my son said "is he still on that" i said oh you saw them too he said no i saw her in person we went bar hopping with his dad the ow and his girlfriend and my son. I still have 2 at home 12,9 does my stbx have no class as to have her around the older ones it's only been 9 weeks. and why doesn't my oldest say no dad this isn't cool to go out I don't know who's worse my stbx or my oldest son
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Interesting post. I found out that my daughter has gone over to my stbx's house on several occasions lately and had conversations with him. I felt betrayed. The reality is that he is the only dad she has ever known and the only grandpa that my grandson and i realized that their relationship is none of my business and whatever my feelings are, I need to deal with thme with my friends and support people and not my kids.
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you have to let the kids go through their own emotions. and your ex found a good way to entice the oldest, take them barhopping and pay for drinks, how long do you think that will last, not long. don't worry about this, keep being positive for yourself and the kids, they will see through all of this.
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Nine weeks is way to early to have the kids around his new gf but you do have to let your kids decide if they feel comfortable around the situation. I know exactly how you feel. My X had my little girl around several different gf and it sucked. I guess we have to let our X's lead their own lives. But remember hes not going to like it when you have them around your new bo either.
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Please don't place any guilt or blame on your son. I'm sure he's dealing with things in his own way. I agree-it's WAY too soon for stbx to be exposing the gf to them but it's not within your control. You are the better, stronger person with alot more class and grace than he could ever hope to have. My heart aches for you.
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My X had the balls to ask If i would send my daughter up to vacation with him, our fifty thousand dollar boat, and his latest LTR-the second since he left me. I told him to F**k himself.These people have no shame.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
