Nothin scares someone like a Restraining Order.

you should file one before SHE and HE go and files one on you.
Way too much drama here... they are messing with you.

File a RO and let them know you are not going to be intimidated.
Save all the messages. Make a hard copy or send them off and store them in an email that can be accessed anytime and anywhere. Not stored in your computer in your harddrive.

I can't file a RO since he is in Nigeria..I haven't had any contact with him at all..not even responded to all his crap..

I am not sure there is much you can do -- she is seeing things thru her own lenses and may very welel not consider anything you have to say -- just drop it if you can. i know, easier said than done.

I can drop it but I wonder if he threatens me what can or will he do to my kids if he even makes it to the US?..I dobut he will make it to the US but what if?

Sorry about that crap Bob.

still keep the emails and text stored ...for future reference.

keep the faith and be strong. Be well

Sorry you're going through this. I'm going through a similar situation but I don't have any kids so at least that's one thing. I wish you didn't have these problems.

Thanks for the support..I have everything stored on a thumb drive in a safe..just to be safe..in case something happens to me..

Can you block his number and/or e-mail adresses?

I can..but I think it would be better to get the evidence now..Think it might be helpful when she files for divorce ..after a year and a half if she does..I will use it to get custody of my son..

I have no idea about this but maybe you can report it to someone that could possibly keep him from coming into the US should he try to do so. I would just call your local police and get their opinion.

I really don't need to worry about him coming to the US..the US State department is not allow Nigerians into the US due to the scams that are happening to US citizens..Just wish the wife would see that he is just a scam artist..

I'm not familiar with your situation, so forgive me if I'm way off base. I wish I could remember where I saw this and more of the details. There was a recent news story on Nigerian scammers who prey on US women & get them to fall in love w/them and then scam them for the money. It seemed like they mentioned websites & places to report this.

Since you are being threatened, it couldn't hurt to google Nigerian scammers & report him. When you save all this to hard copy, if possible get the static IP address. There is actually software (Symantec for one) out there that can trace those addresses.

I'm really sorry you are having to deal with this. Divorce is hard enough without having to put up that.

I have already reported him to the State Department and to the Nigerian State Department..