
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I have been having dreams of my stbx. It does not help to have these dreams as I want to cope and move on. My head tells me that there is no chance to reconcile from her part (she wants this divorce) and has shown no signs. Basically I know it is trully over. However despite the pain my heart still longs for her and I miss her. The mornigs are especially tough for me. Sometimes I feel I should call to see if she is sure this is what she wants. My head tells me not to, and to let her go completely. Anyone else in the same boat? Everyone tells me to let time heal my wounds but it seems to get harder.
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I totally get the contradiction between heart and mind, it's usually what compels couples to get stuck in that vicious back and forth cycle. Don't give in to that though as it rarely does more than cause additional damage to the relationship.
It is always best to move forward, never back. If she can't appreciate you or your love then it's best for you to move on and find someone who can and does. Life is too short to demand anything less. Hang in there!