I swear to God the last time I heard that song, was the American Idol premier of Carrie Underwood's video while she was in Africa. It was the one where they were doing the America gives back segment and i wept so hard, watching the show with the kids. I think was April. but man, oh, man, what a terrific song, both Christie Hynes & CW. Just amazing. I think I would literally well up again if/when I hear that song again. Yes tough guys call me a wuss for weeping over a song...

What we (I) would give to know 100% that there is someone there for me like this...to protect and take care of me.

Thanks for sharing, Jim.

Is this the DS Theme Song?

It should be the themes song. I don't know. All i know is last night it came on the radio and it just struck me as how we all are here. Maybe it was the meds i am on. And JTGPP it did bring tears to my eyes too last night.

Dark mood today, Sorry for this, she stood right there and promised all of this.

I want to know absolutely if there is one single woman that would stand by me..

Rob-I think that every person here would like an answer to that question.

well Rob, she told me she would stand by me too, and I guess that only meant until the first swinging D*** came around. But I agree with you pal, it would be nice to know if there is one woman out there that will stand by you.

Oh my dear sweet God, please help me to heal. Please help me to learn that the one person on this earth taht will always stand by me is myself. Please help me learn that must be enough for me.

I realize where I'm at, I know people can be trusted. It just will be hard to every trust again. I suppose being 60 doesn't make it an earier or harder then 20. When someone you love lies down with someone else a part of you dies.

Rob,

For me, It isn't that he layed down with someone else--it's that he walked out the door, he said I was important, I wasn't worth working for, everything I thought we were for each other was a lie. So, a piece of me died. Times, like right now, I'm fighting my demons. The ones whispering in my ears. . .


I do believe the only one that will truly stand by me is me. But, here I feel like people care. As I long as I need their support, they will give it to me. Strangers who care--when loved ones don't--Sorry I'm rambling

Utah you are not rambling - just hurting like the rest of us are!

Jim, Thanks, I love that song. There is someone out there for you, that will stand beside you forever. You just have to find the right one. I wish you all the luck in finding her. Hugs, Lisa

I like that "whispering in my ear", I have a whole damn group shooting in mine.

ok..i'll jump on this bandwagon...i turn that song off now when i hear it. it makes me ill. i am not at the point quite yet where i can hear things like that very much. 2nd...i AM a woman who "stood by" her man...until the bitter friggin' end. and as i've stated on other posts & in my journal, we are attempting to be friendly...which is hard. and sad and i'm afraid it's hurting me more than helping me. i stood by him thru the dui, the license suspension, the money issues, the family, the everything...i always felt i was the one "pumping" him up.."u are a good man" blah blah blah...so...where's my "Stand by ME???" man?? does he exist? and damnit...is tardiness going to be one of the new man's characteristics????
and southpau...i understand what ur saying...from a female perspective. he "stood by me" only long enough (it seems) to help him fix his life...then when it came time for me...my turn to be taken care of, to be "rewarded" so to speak...it only took the 1st younger woman to flash her boobs & promise "thrills & chills" for him to run to her. tho he says he regrets it. ah damnit...i don't want to be this way today! it's friday...it's football weekend...shit fire & save matches!

(((hugs))) Pit...Sweetie, Most of us Here were Not the type to ever give up. For Better or Worse, and that was it.

If we all decide that Life is Over, then it WILL be over.

I get Tired of being a freakin' Weeble, but I refuse to lay down and play Dead!!! Damnit, I am a Great Woman-There are LOTS of Great Women on this Forum...LOTS of Great Men, TOO!!!

Get that Through Your Heads. Start Making Friends with What is GOOD about yourselves. Please.

Get up and Dance for a bit. Even if you Don't feel like it.

If I NEVER have Love-at Least I Tried. I KNOW that most of you have more going for you than I will ever have...Please, get well and TRY.