Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
i wrote this message to someone and didnt feel like trying to retype or reword,, so just pasted it here,, but i REALLY need some advice,, or just to know what u DID when and IF u were ever here.
i don't know how to approach ppl with issues.. because i dont feel like my prob.s are worthy of anyone's time.. so to unload on u like that means i am pretty confused right now... i think i (not understand) but can empathize with where ur at right now.... stuck ... the exact word i've been looking for... I wrote that message to u in haste,, and didnt even understand the depth to it, until i reread it just now...I try to mask over it as much as possible.. because whenever i go to talk about I just wanna give up and fall apart. just reading it has me in tears, but then i wipe the tears with anger.... anger at him for sure,, but angry at myself, and I'm not sure for what.
{stbx took me off of bank account a couple of months ago.. so everywhere i go i'm limited,, i have to explain when i need money for the kids and i.... and it's wearing on me.. i feel powerless, ... I want to be amicable for the kids.. he's not mature enuf to see he's hurting them too, when he takes stuff away from me.. and for no reason...}
i don't know how to approach ppl with issues.. because i dont feel like my prob.s are worthy of anyone's time.. so to unload on u like that means i am pretty confused right now... i think i (not understand) but can empathize with where ur at right now.... stuck ... the exact word i've been looking for... I wrote that message to u in haste,, and didnt even understand the depth to it, until i reread it just now...I try to mask over it as much as possible.. because whenever i go to talk about I just wanna give up and fall apart. just reading it has me in tears, but then i wipe the tears with anger.... anger at him for sure,, but angry at myself, and I'm not sure for what.
{stbx took me off of bank account a couple of months ago.. so everywhere i go i'm limited,, i have to explain when i need money for the kids and i.... and it's wearing on me.. i feel powerless, ... I want to be amicable for the kids.. he's not mature enuf to see he's hurting them too, when he takes stuff away from me.. and for no reason...}
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
if i go out with a friend or something and he "thinks" I'm looking at other guys and such,, even tho he blatently said,, i'm not payin 4 such n such, cuz we're SEParated.... suddenly $20 "allowance" is reduced to ten.. so i have to think of reasons to ask for more
More of something that should be mine also... uuuggh, so frustrated!
OMG,, how are you supposed to feed the kids? Do you have to beg for that money also?
I don't know what to tell you other than get an attorney and FAST!
I went from being too controlling in the beginning of the marriage, to having a little meltdown (a bipolar manic episode) to being absolutely powerless....