My husband has created yet another problem tonight. I need advice. He had a daughter when I married him. She is now 10. We have one child together. I spoil my daughter the very best I can. I love to buy her lots of things for holidays. I don't buy much thru the year, just on holidays. I buy a VERY good holiday for my step daughter as well. There haven't been very much difference made yet, some but not too much. My daughter got 2 little baskets for Easter, step daughter got 1 big basket. My family makes a difference with my daughter. It is the only family she has. My husbands family does nothing. Literally, they don't usually show up a parties etc. Which they dont' do for my step daughter either. My thing is, My step-d is here 4 days a month per divorce papers (every other weekend). She wants for NOTHING here. She has 3 families that spoil her. My family is great to the step, but a difference is made like I said. However, my daughter has 1 family to spoil her. Long story short, my husband says that my family should not make differences in the kids. P.S. My family Never see's her...very, very rarely, mostly at Holidays. Should my family make differences for a child that they never see, and when given presents, the presents are not good enough?
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