It has been almost 4 months since my husband walked out and recently I found out he was living in a beautiful community with his gf, and driving my SUV and parking it there, I then took it back. But since I cannot afford it I gave it back to him, with the condition that he pays the $500 a month and that he pay me $500 for the month that I paid it. He agreed. He supposedly then got kicked out by his g/f (who knows) and is living with his mom. At first he was angry with me and said it was my fault b/c I talked to her and then was real nice to me. He is leaving for Florida and like a jerk I told him he didn't have to pay the $500 until he got back and so on, well he was coming to pick up the SUV on Friday night before his work Christmas party and that day was real nice even said he would turn his plane ticket in and drive to Florida with me if I would go and was great. The night he came to pick up the car, he never even came in to say anything, he just left his work truck and took off with the SUV and then when I called to ask why he didn't stop in, he said fine and then turned around and came in, he was distant and nasty and a jerk, I asked if I could have a hug since I won't see him and he hugged me like I was a leper, then told me not to be upset it was his party and he didn't want the drama. I did nothing, now he turned off his cell. I didn't do anything, but be nice to him and this is what I get, why do I bother? Do you think he is using me? or just hates to even look at me. I kept saying, I want a divorce, What is going on, is he Jekyl and Hyde? Help?
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