Why is this so frustrating! I swear I think he is torturing me!! Most of the time he comes off as uniterested. His lists of reasons include exhustion, depression, anxiety, busyness, the kids being awake, bad feelings about us, ect. I understand these things, but I am trying to figure out what to do to get him interested without running the risk of rejection or pressuing him. I can promise you that 9 times out of 10 if I ask, and I will ask point blank, I get turned down! However, the most agrivating thing he does is, (and he JUST DID THIS TONIGHT) he comes home cranky, exhusted, and to top this off he claims he is HORNEY! (SOrry to be so blunt, that those are the mans words!) I was floored! I have been trying to get him interested in me all weekend and he acts like I am "starving" him! THEN he adds that he wishes he didnt want sex so much! (HELLO! I CAN RELATE! TOO BAD WE DONT RELATE TOGETHER!) I asked him what he was looking for. He said "SEX!" I asked him why he turned me down just a couple nights ago. He gave some lame exuse and I pressed him with a few more questions. I know he is tired and depressed about life and all. He has no direction and its hard. He wants to do more than just work 10+ hours a day, come home for a few more hours go to sleep only to do it over again! Its not even that his job is fulfulling! But somehow when I ask about our relationship, he accuses me about being "Nit picky" about our relationship and our sex life. (This has been true in the past, but I dont say a word now!)then went to sleep while I got the kids dinner going! Go figure! Anyone else have a problem like this?
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