Ok, I just got off the phone with the ex. This is the first time I've really talked to him in 2 weeks. I decided to contact him as little as possible. So, I call him up to discuss our son who is having a difficult time adjusting to a new school (he's 12). I moved back closer to both of our families so he would have extra support because even after 6 months we are still both in a state of shock. So we're 3 1/2 hours away from cheater cheater pumpkin eater. I call to tell him our son is in trouble. He is having a difficult time and I don't know what to do. I'm at my wits end. I am on the edge here! He asks me,"well when are you going to take him to counseling?" I couldn't speak for a sec. I've told him twice over the phone and on 2 emails about his counseling sessions and he didn't even know he started them. (See how I'm dealing with a master mind here) Anyway to make a long story short he goes,"tell me what you want me to do and I'll do it." This was our whole marriage. I made the decisions, I did everything. I told him,"I need help. Your son needs help. I don't know what to do. I'm begging you to help me out here." Well, he doesn't know what he can do. So then he proceeds to slam me for moving away, making this wrong decision. I thought this move was for Logan but it sounds you're living it up. Apparently, my son told him I was going on a date this Saturday...whatever. So he goes just talk to me about what he is saying. So I tell him. On a car drive back to my place he and his friend (18 year old, the ex 35) are talking about boobs, porn, and how the ex is horny for boobies and wants sex. Then the 18 year old proceeds to show our son a picture of boobs on his cell phone. So I tell him his judgment is out of whack and what the hell was he thinking? His response? You'll love it.....I didn't think he could hear us. If I had known he could hear us the conversation wouldn't have gone that direction. So I go,"so, what about the picture of the boobs? Is there a reason he needed to see pictures?" I get....well, you just think you know everything. Why don't you do what you're best at and go aggravate him.... Can you hear that? My head is banging against the dumb wall! How could a man be so frickin' stupid? I have high opinions of men and appreciate them, but this one...Man group, you need to kick his ass to the curb. He gives you a bad name.
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