Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
We are all at different stages of "healing" I hope from our divorces/seperations/breakups.
That being said, I wanted to offer a word of encouragement for the hurting. When I decided to file for divorce in April, I knew all the bad things my then wife did to "me" and our "family".
I spent about 23 of 24 hours dealing in serious PAIN, hurt, betrayal, resentment, anger, believing she was making a mistake by breaking up our family and going off to do her thing.
Fast forward a short six months. There are days when I think I miss her, but in reality, I miss the idea of being with "someone" and knowing that I could snuggle the person I loved while we shared our bed, and make plans about our future, etc. etc.
That "disillusion" taht my wife was a good wife and mother, and everything I wanted in a woman, was false. I see the "reality" today that she is not what I thought she was and in all actuality, has only done all tehse bad things to "herself". So, the transgression went from poor me, to oh, you poor thing, honey. I tell you when that pendulum swings, there's nothing in the world you cannot attain.
Hurting members, I made a vow to myself to do what I can to help those in need, offer encouragement, information and sources of assistance that has brought me to a place where I am today.
I swear to God, it does get better.
See the next post ALSO called "dream away"
That being said, I wanted to offer a word of encouragement for the hurting. When I decided to file for divorce in April, I knew all the bad things my then wife did to "me" and our "family".
I spent about 23 of 24 hours dealing in serious PAIN, hurt, betrayal, resentment, anger, believing she was making a mistake by breaking up our family and going off to do her thing.
Fast forward a short six months. There are days when I think I miss her, but in reality, I miss the idea of being with "someone" and knowing that I could snuggle the person I loved while we shared our bed, and make plans about our future, etc. etc.
That "disillusion" taht my wife was a good wife and mother, and everything I wanted in a woman, was false. I see the "reality" today that she is not what I thought she was and in all actuality, has only done all tehse bad things to "herself". So, the transgression went from poor me, to oh, you poor thing, honey. I tell you when that pendulum swings, there's nothing in the world you cannot attain.
Hurting members, I made a vow to myself to do what I can to help those in need, offer encouragement, information and sources of assistance that has brought me to a place where I am today.
I swear to God, it does get better.
See the next post ALSO called "dream away"
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
And I, like you, surely would like to do whatever I can to help the multitude of hurting people who come here for fellowship in their time of trauma.