Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am almost afraid to say what happened today. I am afraid that I will jinx my self or if I start to relax and let my gueard down I will get flattened.
So I met with the Lawyer today who had represented me in the past for a personal injury cse on my son. I went in with the expectation that I would have to use my car as calateral for the POA case. When I got there I was there 2and a half hours. The lawyer brought in an associate to conferance with us. SHe will actually be handeling my case. They review my paper work and asked me some questions. Then they asked me to leave the room. I was like WTF but I did so.
When I returned they said here what we want to do. Your Ex is an Ass and we want to impose justice. We would like to file a personal injury case against him for the things he has done to you physically. We will not charge you a penny if we don't get paid however we also want to represent you in the divorce as well, and would ask that any settlement from said personal injury be granted to us for your divorce case and we are also goingto ask that he have to pay the legal fees for this case. If this happens the money we recovery would go to you. We are not going to ask for the title to your car as colateral because we think you have an excellant case. And if we lose the personal injury case and the judge dosen't grant our motion to make him pay the legal fees then they said that they would not make me pay a dime unless I hit the lottery or get an inheratance. Then they said in other words we want to help you and we will only charge you the 800 dollars for the POA case which we will let ride till your student loans come in.
I was dumbfounded. They are also chargeing an enormous fee for the divorce to be paid by my STBX he is going to charge 200 dollars an hour for this case.
They want to help me pay STBX back for being such an ASS is it possible that there is Justice in this world?
When I left there I went to the GYM and when I left I got rear ended hard enough that it knocked my car into 4 wheel drive. But i am not injured and my car dosen't have a scratch on it. The woman who hit me was driving a Mecedes Benz SUV and the front of her car was fucked up It's a good thing I have a spare tire on the back of my car I think that protected my car.
Anyway that was my day.
Oh I almost forgot they are fileing continuances in both cases the one on the 5th and the 6th claiming that with the holiday and with just accepting the cse that they don't have enough time to prepare they are preety certain that the opposition will object but that the judge will probably allow it. My Lawyer told me that he personally has appeared in front of this Judge against STBX's lawyer in the past and that STBX's Lawyer has pissed him off many time and even was held in contempt by this judge once. SO I have a good chance of not having toappear untill after my vacation but they also said not to count my chickens till they hatched.
So I met with the Lawyer today who had represented me in the past for a personal injury cse on my son. I went in with the expectation that I would have to use my car as calateral for the POA case. When I got there I was there 2and a half hours. The lawyer brought in an associate to conferance with us. SHe will actually be handeling my case. They review my paper work and asked me some questions. Then they asked me to leave the room. I was like WTF but I did so.
When I returned they said here what we want to do. Your Ex is an Ass and we want to impose justice. We would like to file a personal injury case against him for the things he has done to you physically. We will not charge you a penny if we don't get paid however we also want to represent you in the divorce as well, and would ask that any settlement from said personal injury be granted to us for your divorce case and we are also goingto ask that he have to pay the legal fees for this case. If this happens the money we recovery would go to you. We are not going to ask for the title to your car as colateral because we think you have an excellant case. And if we lose the personal injury case and the judge dosen't grant our motion to make him pay the legal fees then they said that they would not make me pay a dime unless I hit the lottery or get an inheratance. Then they said in other words we want to help you and we will only charge you the 800 dollars for the POA case which we will let ride till your student loans come in.
I was dumbfounded. They are also chargeing an enormous fee for the divorce to be paid by my STBX he is going to charge 200 dollars an hour for this case.
They want to help me pay STBX back for being such an ASS is it possible that there is Justice in this world?
When I left there I went to the GYM and when I left I got rear ended hard enough that it knocked my car into 4 wheel drive. But i am not injured and my car dosen't have a scratch on it. The woman who hit me was driving a Mecedes Benz SUV and the front of her car was fucked up It's a good thing I have a spare tire on the back of my car I think that protected my car.
Anyway that was my day.
Oh I almost forgot they are fileing continuances in both cases the one on the 5th and the 6th claiming that with the holiday and with just accepting the cse that they don't have enough time to prepare they are preety certain that the opposition will object but that the judge will probably allow it. My Lawyer told me that he personally has appeared in front of this Judge against STBX's lawyer in the past and that STBX's Lawyer has pissed him off many time and even was held in contempt by this judge once. SO I have a good chance of not having toappear untill after my vacation but they also said not to count my chickens till they hatched.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
God bless