I'm married and for the lst couple years feel so miserable, my husband is no help what so ever, i'm a stay home mom, and truly feel so lonely and miserable including exhaustion, he gives me no time to myself because he says im a stay home mom , i have a newborn baby who is 5 weeks old and he doesnt help me through the night because he says he works nights he works 3 to midnight and then he wakes up at around 12:30 in the afternoon because he has to sleep because he works nights, so by the time he gets up i serve him his breakfast, cook him his lunch and dinner to go and that is it i get no help, is it me but i dont even consider him working nights to the point that he is looesing sleep? i mean he stays up to 3:30 am all the time and then he sleeps al day? is that normal for a married man to still act like they are single, and on weekends when he is off its the same story he wakes up late i serve him his food and i watch the kids and have zero time to myself, i get to do my eyebrows only when my mother comes to visit because he wont watch both kids, maybe its me, and on top of all this hes sooo mean, doesnt even appreciate anything i do, i feel so lonely, maybe i watch too many movies but is there such thing as your true love, u know the one you laugh with, have fun with. miss , want to hug and watch tv with, i mean im in this hell where i cant stand the sight of him, dont even sit on the same coach as him, or do i watch too many movies? he has such a short fuse, but i understand why? life is too short to get upset so easily, i know hes miserable so why doesnt he just leave me? but he says he wants to stay together for the kids, i dont understand he doesnt even spend time with them why does he want to stay together for the kids? i just want out of this whole mess and dont have the strength, i wish this would work but it doesnt cause he doesnt see anything wrong, so i remain by myself with my tears alone, how do i convince this man its over? we had break ups before and they all dont work, i thank god i have my kids they brighten up my days even if they drive me crazy at times, i just wish i had that guy, the one that puts the kids on the shoulders and runs around with their kids and is so happy and proud of his family and what he choose as a path in life
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