I am new to the forum and newly seperated, divorce final in Oct. I was married to analcoholic who filed for the divorce, becuase he couldn't live with me...imagaine that. I was willing to work on this marriage of 7 years, he decided that it wasn't worth it. we have a 30 year relationship history. Now he treats me with indifference which is THE worst that anyone can do to another human being. I am really trying to let go but this so hard to do...everyday I have this ball in the pit of my stomach that never goes away. I am going to Alanon, therapy, spiritual counseling, alot of great support, reading...so i know oneday i will GROW through this divorce. But for today its really bad. Thanks for letting me vent
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