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tWICE IN ONE NIGHT THANKS AGAIN

Dont do it! generaly only bad things come from it.

THANKS KEN

Don't do it. It won't make you feel better. It will only make you feel worse. You can't control what he wants you can only control you. Stay strong.

WE are here for you. Sure, not the same thing as talking on the phone, but we ARE listening (reading) and do you think stbx is really interested in your call? No, but we are.

I wrote 3 journals a day to avoid calling. I started a Detox Plan--a goal. Like an addict would and would journal about it. Tell everyone, ok I am on Day 4 of being clean. Everyone would give me courage, come on, make it 7. Come on make it 10. Never made it past 10 until forever but now I am detoxing from my 1st and lastest post-divorce realationship. Made it 14 days on that one and had to break it for my cat (he has my cat as of today-another story). So now, I am detoxing again from him and contact is about my Cat only. Have no idea how i got so wrapped up in someone so soon afterwards. Think it was the need of wanting someone to love and care about me. Gotta be careful of that for the next one.

hey lady, i feel the exact same but I actually did, now im bawling like a damn 2 year old and im at work. It isnt worth it. You will just realize how hard it is. Its no worth it believe me, I wish someone would have stopped me.

Don't feel bad, I just made the call, I can kick myself! No answer, he must be out enjoying his new single life.

Do not call. Self-esteem will spiral downwards leading to more calls, and so on. Keep your finger off the trigger and your self-esteem will rise and the desire to call will lessen.

I sure hope so. I feel so foolish for making the call. I do feel encouraged after reading all your comments, thanks

Don't call, I did today and I ended up feeling even worse. I started crying and telling how much I missed him, the silence on his end was deafening! I felt like I had no control of myself as he sat there like I was crazy, NOT WORTH IT< TRUST US ALL!!!!

Next time I feel like calling I am going to get online first and let everyone talk me out of it! lol Your all so right...

I am guilty of this. I was on day 5. Missed him terribly.
I called twice on his cell. He didn't pick up. I didn't leave a message but now I am wondering what he's doing that he doesn't pick up his cell. I e-mailed. kick myself in the ass for it.
Do what you can to not call. It will not make you feel better. Stay strong.

Call him, have sex. It wont change things but if you get an orgasim out of it the you are the winner