I was dating this very Sweet and interesting Girl for a bit, we hit it off quick and were having a blast with each other. At the start I took things for what they were and didn't worry or dwell much but as I became more attached I started to worry about all sorts of things.

Ranging from trust issues, jelousy and the fear of being Hurt. So one night I called her up and said I don't think we should see each other anymore. After that we didnt talk for a week, during that time I was feeling pretty shitty about what I did to her and myself.

So I called her back up explained to her what I was feeling and the confused thinking that was going on with me. She heard me out on what I said and then after a breif stint of what I refer to as the what the hell are we now phase, I jumped the gun once more and made the same mistake I made ealier.

I care for this one and I don't want to let her go, I do see that she threw herself out to me once and I broke her trust In me there. She then gave me a second shot and I foolishly ruined that with the same error as before. Now we still talk but its nothing like how it was before and well I acually can't blame her for being reclusive with me.

She said now that Ive ruined her trust in me twice now, so why she even talks to me is beyond me but at this point I dont want to make the same mistake and push her any further then I already have.

So What im thinking is what should I do in terms of were things are at now? Should I persue her and try to let her know Im here and am sorry for how things are, should I give her time away, or should I just keep things with just some casual contact here and there.

Also what in terms should be some things you would advise one to do to possibly try to mend things between us and things one should try to avoid to further complicate things?