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Rejection Sets Off Alarms For Folks w. Low Self-Esteem...
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http://www.physorg.com/news111337064.html
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"Social rejection is inevitable in society," said Anett Gyurak, a graduate student who co-authored the study with Ozlem Ayduk, a UC Berkeley assistant professor of psychology. "But our findings suggest that if people with low self-esteem can improve their attention control skills, they might feel less terrible about themselves and counter the negative effects of rejection."
While remedies to improve attention control require further study, researchers speculate that training the mind to focus for extended time periods and behavioral therapy that teaches people with low self-esteem to take a more positive or contextual approach to disappointment may help. "
(full story)
http://www.physorg.com/news111337064.html
A snip...
"Social rejection is inevitable in society," said Anett Gyurak, a graduate student who co-authored the study with Ozlem Ayduk, a UC Berkeley assistant professor of psychology. "But our findings suggest that if people with low self-esteem can improve their attention control skills, they might feel less terrible about themselves and counter the negative effects of rejection."
While remedies to improve attention control require further study, researchers speculate that training the mind to focus for extended time periods and behavioral therapy that teaches people with low self-esteem to take a more positive or contextual approach to disappointment may help. "

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Mario, you've been absent, welcome back!

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Mario, that's the thing... I can't keep my attention to one thing for very long... Never have been able to. It's like my mind is all over the place all the time. IT SUCKS BIG TIME!~!
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