Seems like some relationships are breaking up because the one person doesn't love the other anymore. Then there are others where they still love each other but are divorcing anyway. Love is not a feeling, it is a choice. I feel like there are so many breakups because people aren't expecting the right things. (I am obviously excluding adultery, addiction and abuse - those invite much more than is tollerable). Although, even the adultery thing many times is "justified" by the cheater because they love someone else, or don't love someone else anymore. If you still care about someone and wish them happiness, that is love. Love is not skipping on a beach and chocolates. I'm sorry to say. I just feel people are chasing things that don't exist.
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