Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I oficially split up last week. I am going through that period of doubt and intense loneliness. We have been living apart for more than a year and a half, and I was waiting for him to move here as originally planned. He recently decided he doesn't want to move here any more. He says "things changed". He insists there is nobody else, that it is because of his company. He says he loves me, but doesn't have time to spend with me.
For all practical purposes I have been alone for a long time. I never go out. I work all day and then come home to my son. I have very few friends and little support, as I am new to the city. I used to be a fun person, who did a lot of things, but I didn't want to give him any cause to doubt me, so I faithfully stayed home every night.
Now what? Is it too soon to go out? Am I supposed to stay in and sulk? Where do I find people to go out with?
For all practical purposes I have been alone for a long time. I never go out. I work all day and then come home to my son. I have very few friends and little support, as I am new to the city. I used to be a fun person, who did a lot of things, but I didn't want to give him any cause to doubt me, so I faithfully stayed home every night.
Now what? Is it too soon to go out? Am I supposed to stay in and sulk? Where do I find people to go out with?
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Do you have family or friends close that can provides some emotional support, while you are trying to find your way? It is going to take some time to heal, as this is so new, and the pain is raw at this stage, You have really only had a week, knowing for certain that he is done, and will need time to heal. I am hoping that you have some friends or family that you can do things with. Stay with us here, and make friends that can help you through this. You have a son that is really going to need you to help him through this, and maybe meeting other single parents might be helpful at this time. Parents without partners is one organization that I can think of that may provide some help and resource advice for you. I wish you all the best as you start this new path,. We are with you, and will walk it with you until you heal:-) Healing hugs, Kimmee