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So we just went to sign the divorce papers...

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She cheated on me, she wanted the divorce, she says she is done with me. I thought I had my act together, but after all the paperwork was signed, I just lost it. I thought I had it together, and have been coming to terms with it. Now I think I understand a bit better when people say the grieving process takes time.

Ironically, she cried when we got married 18 years ago, I guess it kind of fitting that I cry when we get divorced! God this sucks.
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I am so sorry for your pain...take really good care of yourself right now. Treat yourself gently and with kindness. We are here for you.
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It does suck, and it's not fair. Give yourself time to grieve, be good to yourself, hugs!
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
It hurts Jester...let all the emotion out.

I hear the hurt and I am so sorry for your pain.

Know that we are here for you, to support you and to stay with you. Be well and yes, do take care of yourself please.
((((HUGS)))))
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Hugs. It's tough. Sending you strength and patience. Hope you have friends and family to lean on at this time.
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Hang in there.. you are experiencign the lost of the future you had planned in your mind.. I know ....

I feel something very similar when my daugther was still born. I lost the future, my plans, my dreams.....

So sorry for your pain.
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Let it out Jester. Just let those tears flow.
It's important to grieve.

I'm waiting for my decree to be mailed to me. I know that day I'll sob my eyes out.
And then I'll pick myself up off the floor and move on a day or a moment at a time.
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I feel you, I keep on hearing how great I am handling it from both sides of the family, even if I was the one dumped. I was doing great and was feeling Happy then Yesterday I started to cry. It's overwelmed me while trying to get a tree with my 2nd grade son. Had to make him help me carry this big tree home and set it up. I thought I had it under control but then I tried to fix a kitchen drawer that he was to fix but been sitting there for a few weeks now.

I felt or alone and helpless, while I was trying to empower myself and do it myself. man, I need to take a class for dummy on fixing household problems =p
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Put it all behind you when you can. You have the rest of your life to live without being tied to someone who causes you such pain. She is not worth the tears.
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