Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
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I've been married to my husband for almost 4 years. We've had our ups & downs from him talking to other girls on the phone 1 month after we were married, to a former girlfriend coming out & claiming that her kids might be his (both negative paternity tests), to us separating for 2 months, getting back together (happily for a while) & now, we are separated again. This time, because his family has a lot going on, on top of us arguing all the time because HE SAYS I have no friends, I treat him like I am his mom, I don't give him space, I ask too many questions...and I SAY because I am going to school FULL TIME (8am to 4pm Mon-Fri) plus working a part time job to help out, he works a crazy job with crazy hours in the Marines & we never have time for each other (date night & that sort of thing), all I wanted was attention & time that we could spend together other than eating dinner, watching tv & going to sleep, and he hides/omits things (such as a traffic ticket that will raise the insurance, giving money to his family to help them out but we haven't gone grocery shopping or paid the utilities yet), hiding his cell phone & car keys because he "doesn't trust that I won't touch anything of his" (aren't we MARRIED?!).... So, now, being separated, I am in NC with no family around, it is hard to make friends because I really don't have time to hang out because of going to school and working & I am going INSANE because all of the sudden now that he has his own place, he is partying it up every weekend (he is 28, by the way), going out of town, has female friends (hasn't had any the entire time we've been married), & his friends are trying to hook him up with other females & they are sending him cards with hearts on them & all that!!!! I am SO hurt because before we split (2 weeks ago, mind you), we promised each other to continue to talk, possibly work it out, & if either one of us was going to pursue something with someone else, to tell the other and be honest. I just found out about all of this since Thursday, today about the cards with the hearts....I don't know what to think, do...anything!!!! I feel like I am about to lose my mind! Comments/advice is appreciated. I've never felt so crushed in my entire life...
I've been married to my husband for almost 4 years. We've had our ups & downs from him talking to other girls on the phone 1 month after we were married, to a former girlfriend coming out & claiming that her kids might be his (both negative paternity tests), to us separating for 2 months, getting back together (happily for a while) & now, we are separated again. This time, because his family has a lot going on, on top of us arguing all the time because HE SAYS I have no friends, I treat him like I am his mom, I don't give him space, I ask too many questions...and I SAY because I am going to school FULL TIME (8am to 4pm Mon-Fri) plus working a part time job to help out, he works a crazy job with crazy hours in the Marines & we never have time for each other (date night & that sort of thing), all I wanted was attention & time that we could spend together other than eating dinner, watching tv & going to sleep, and he hides/omits things (such as a traffic ticket that will raise the insurance, giving money to his family to help them out but we haven't gone grocery shopping or paid the utilities yet), hiding his cell phone & car keys because he "doesn't trust that I won't touch anything of his" (aren't we MARRIED?!).... So, now, being separated, I am in NC with no family around, it is hard to make friends because I really don't have time to hang out because of going to school and working & I am going INSANE because all of the sudden now that he has his own place, he is partying it up every weekend (he is 28, by the way), going out of town, has female friends (hasn't had any the entire time we've been married), & his friends are trying to hook him up with other females & they are sending him cards with hearts on them & all that!!!! I am SO hurt because before we split (2 weeks ago, mind you), we promised each other to continue to talk, possibly work it out, & if either one of us was going to pursue something with someone else, to tell the other and be honest. I just found out about all of this since Thursday, today about the cards with the hearts....I don't know what to think, do...anything!!!! I feel like I am about to lose my mind! Comments/advice is appreciated. I've never felt so crushed in my entire life...
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Your behavior and expectations were reasonable and normal. His behavior is emotionally abusive.