Well, I just got my first reply from this online counselor, and, um, I was totally shocked by how accurate she was about how my allowing my husband to be the way he is has basically set the stage for the way my life has gone all this time. She also said that my relationship with my husband rests in my hands not his. I don't think this counselor expects much change out of my husband and that she thinks I should just kick him out. I don't want a divorce though. :(
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