Misty, you can live a great life without him. Why do you need him? So he took his toys away from the sandbox - go get some of your own. He started with a dream. Wish him well in his new life, and create your own dream, and live that. It works, if you believe.
Smile.

How nice for him that he was able to make his dream come true by destroying his family, especially his child. Because, after all, it's all about him, isn't it?

oh wow, i'm in the initial stages of this very thing. wife is leaving me and the kids to persue her newspaper publishing dream

what if she succeeds big? she gets to look back at me and say, see, it was all your fault-as soon as I left you I succeeded

Focus on your dreams Misty! Time to forget about the idiot who destroyed so much.
Hugs!

Waverly, no regardless of what happens, she is in the wrong. People can pursue their dreams and still remain engaged and faithful with their family. It is her failing!

It was not about losing toys in the sandbox-I lost my last years of fertility-in all actuality I will probably need a hysterectemy within the year. I tore my daughter from her home her neighborhood and put her through four schools in two years.My dream was to be a wife and mother-and to make a happy home for my children and husband -not to have a daughter that will never be the same again-I have to struggle everyday just to keep her happy and to help her forget the hell we went through-Sure he started with a dream and he did everything in his power to make it come true-including dragging his wife and child through hell-losing our home, having our utilities turned off-having our car repossessed-so on and son on.

If it is any consolation...things probably won't work out for him and the GF and you can only fish for so long right? He may be on top right now, but gravity will eventually bring him back to earth (along with my STBX). Hang in there sweetie....Karma will get even if gravity doesn't! :o)

Jennie is right on the money Misty. He's up high right now, but he won't be there for long babe. He did all that at the expense of his wife, and his daughter and life has a funny way of smacking you on the ass when you treat others like sh_t. It will fall down for him, and on him~trust me on that one. I've seen it happen. It sure ain't pretty.
I wouldn't even sweat their relationship-that has slim to none chance of working. You know that. Give it some time, he created chaos, it will come back around to bite him square between his buttcheeks!

You guys are all right-Deep down I know you are-on the surface I am hurt because it seems so unfair that he gets what he sacrificed us for-Just a bad moment,I know he will get his soon-maybe-he has seemed to have lived a charmed life.